You really have two choices. You can let Nature take its course or you can take charge of your romantic love life. You may have already been letting Nature control you. That is, you make yourself as attractive as possible, you have a mental checklist of qualities in a partner that you are looking for and then you meet someone and start to find out more about them. Be honest though, if you’ve ever worn lipstick then you’re not really letting Nature take its course, are you?